As we start the month that always has me thinking spring, there's a wonderful Scripture verse to go along with it: "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." ~ Proverbs 3:5
All I can say is....when we lean on our own understanding, we don't get very far and it gets kind of messy. We are only seeing the outside surface of a situation which can lead us to all kinds of rabbit trail conclusions. Even when we think we know a bit about the inside of a situation, that reality is that only God knows the truth. He knows the heart. So as we try to plan out a situation from our own understanding - in other words, attempt to control it - it doesn't turn our well.
The truth is that God is always moving behind the scenes. He's working in lives. He's shifting the terrain of our journeys. And we need to let go and completely trust the Lord with all of our heart. He has the best plan for your life. It's for your good and His glory. Win. Win.